A 60-year-old Nigerian woman, Doyinsola A. Ilori, has shared a candid account of her dissolved marriage, revealing that her ex-husband has married five different women in the ten years since he abandoned their union and subsequently divorced her.
Doyinsola shared her story on Facebook while reacting to the recent public altercation involving singer 2Baba and his wife, Natasha.
The mother of four recalled that she had initially planned to leave the marriage due to constant disputes and infidelity but chose to stay in the loveless relationship for the sake of her children. However, when her husband decided to leave, he did so without considering the family’s welfare.
According to her, when she urged him to consider how the divorce would affect their children, he simply told their children that “his joy is more important than them and walked away.”
“On Tuface, I dare to say, “tueh…” Most times for us women, including my humble self, when the men leave us, I mean our husbands and boyfriends, they dump us for the worst version of us,” she wrote.
“By the time this reality hits them, shame would not let them admit to their colossal error.
“You know how men leave now, they blow everything to smithereens. Wọ́n áti balẹ̀ jẹ́ kọjá sorry
“Then they turn around to console themselves with us regretting leaving our marriages because of their disrespect, while they fail to mention that they have been trying to replace us without success since then.
“I don’t know about yours o, but mine has married 5 other women in 10 years, post absconding and divorce. If any of them better pass me, he for don stop. I ṣáà did 15 years before he comot. Married 5 different women in 10 years!!! Na 7 he dey go. (Kay, Oya kọ̀ bet with me.)
“The 7 sef, na him children I pity, otherwise, he for change wife till he kpai at any age ni.
“PS: Tuface dey kraze, he no well. Na laff Annie suppose dey laff him family now. Sebi na she, dem say she no good, and dem no like. Make dem dey manage Natasha now nàú.
“Na so I laff my ex husbands family, when only two years after he married that d3ad lady, they started chanting, ìgbà Iya Bọbọ gan o le t’eyii.
