Grammy-winning Nigerian singer Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has disclosed the major red flags that would disqualify a potential romantic partner, citing a lack of friendliness and curiosity.
In a recent interview with American outfit Complex, the “Love Me Jeje” crooner stated that the core essence of a relationship is lost if a partner is unwilling to be friendly or show genuine interest in their spouse.
Tems outlined her dating standards:
“My dating terms are someone who is not trying to be your friend is a red flag. Anybody that isn’t curious about you is also a red flag. Because what are we doing? Why are we here if you don’t want to know me?”
She gave clear advice to her followers:
“If he or she doesn’t want to know more about you, end the relationship.”
Tems admitted that while she is a “lover girl,” she is trying to be careful due to past experiences and is currently prioritizing self-love.
